Birthday Party for a Three Year Old – Yay or Nay?

Family September 28th, 2014

Last year I threw a birthday party for my son that included close family and three of his little friends and their associated families. I considered inviting his friends this year but the guest list began growing out of control. If I invite friends from preschool then I feel the need to invite the entire class. That’s eight other children, their parents and siblings. That’s at least twenty four guests!

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What Do You Value?

Saving July 31st, 2014

Have you thought about what you value when it comes to spending & saving money? Mindless spending and/or saving without a purpose won’t get you to where you’d like to be. That means the first step, of course, is figuring out what your financial goals are.

Don’t make them generic goals like “save for retirement” or “save for the kid’s college” either. Make them things that you connect with viscerally. Meaningful stuff. Stuff you’d feel sick about if you didn’t reach. Read the rest of this entry »

Summer Goals Checkup

Goals June 27th, 2014

It’s looonnng past New Year’s resolutions time. In fact we’re about halfway to next year now. So how are you doing on your goals & resolutions?

Are you making awesome progress on at least one of them, or are you struggling to remember what they even were?

Regardless if the current state of your goals, just the act of checking up on them can help. If you’re not were you’d like to be right now — say, with you personal finance related goals — don’t let it get you down.

Instead, use the change of season as an opportunity for a fresh start. And maybe give yourself a shorter time period before the next check-in. I know that personally I do a lot better with much shorter time frames.

Your goals should be important to you, and by giving yourself a shorter time frame you can make them urgent too. That’s a sure-fire way to make progress on them.

Time to Redraw the Plans?

Money management May 30th, 2014

Food for thought:

“I believe your wallet should keep pace with your lifestyle. If you cannot save enough money for the life you want to live isn’t it time to redraw the plans?”

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Walking the Tightrope of Work/Life Balance

Family March 4th, 2014

As a child of the 80s, I was raised to believe I could have it all. No one laughed at me when I expressed a desire to be President one day, instead of the typical “nurse”, “secretary” or “teacher” career goals of my mom & grandma’s eras. To my way of thinking that “I can bring home the bacon, and fry it up in a pan” line was more than just a commercial jingle.

And then I grew up. Read the rest of this entry »

Estate Planning Isn’t Just for Rich People

Estate Planning February 12th, 2014

What do you think of when you hear someone mention estate planning? Maybe a dramatic reading of some rich person’s will in a crowded paneled room? While smart rich people do work on estate planning, so do smart every day folks.

That’s because we all die, and if we die without a plan for our money, the government gets to decide what happens to it. (I don’t know about you, but I’d prefer not to let the government do that.) Read the rest of this entry »

Are You Ready To Buy A Home?

Real Estate January 10th, 2014

Home ownership is a dream for many people. Owning a home represents stability and a commitment to your neighborhood. It can also be a fantastic investment or the cause of most of the stress in your life. So how do you know you’re ready to buy a home? Read the rest of this entry »